Clarify the Right Relationship with Yourself
by Val Wilcox
As you travel through life, you will want to have a direction to follow. Clarifying what you desire in your life will give you this map. Not only will this aid you in your path, it will also be a guide for who you attract into your life. If your relationships are not bringing you joy and satisfaction, it may be time to re-evaluate yourself.
Yes, I said yourself, not your partner. Your perception on who YOU are and what YOU feel you deserve in life has a huge impact on your relationships. You do attract that which you send out.
Before you can find the relationship that is right for you, you may want to take the opportunity to define your concept of who you are and what you want from life. One way to accomplish this is to write down the characteristics and values of the partner you would like to have in your life.
I'll start you off with a few examples:
* Honest and caring
* Positive mindset
* Enjoys outdoors activities
* Comfortable with showing affection
As you build this list, you may notice that these traits or values describe the person YOU want to become. So to attract this type of a person, YOU need to become that type of a person. Makes perfect sense, doesn't it?
Part of the journey of finding a partner is learning how to become your own partner. When you can learn to be comfortable with who you are without relying on someone else to complete you, your relationships are not based on need. Getting to know who you are and learning to love yourself creates a solid foundation of self that you can bring to any relationship.
When you discover your true self, speaking from that space is liberating! You approach your relationship as complimenting who you are instead of defining who you think you have to be. It erases any pre-conceived notions on the definition of your relationship. It's empowering to be in total alignment with your perception on life relationships. This is the beginning of a spectacular life which allows you to grow and flourish as a person.
You may be impatient, feel that you don't have time to wait. Remember that everything happens for a reason. The Universe brings experiences to you when you are open to the possibilities. Maybe this is the time for you to focus on yourself and come to accept and love yourself. Become the person you wish to attract into your life and see what occurs.
The journey of finding the right relationship begins with being in the right relationship with yourself.
Here's to your spectacular life!
Have an awesome day!
Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain.
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